Monday, January 4, 2016


I'm still waffling about what to do about Lane. So far, I haven't done anything really, but I already have this sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach like he's pulling away from me. He hasn't been as engaged via text as he usually is. He takes a while to respond, and doesn't really seem chatty. So I've just been playing it cool. I don't really have a point to this post, other than I can't stop thinking about him, and I don't know what else to do about it.

1 comment:

http://sweetcanadian.blogspot.com/ said...

Is he really doing that though or is it more of your imagination because you tend to think negatively. I also say that because i am the same way. I over think everything and for whatever reason i have it in my head i am not good enough for anything and i do that with everything even though i KNOW i am good enough. I have the marks sheet, honor roll dic and great references that tell me so.

I have been with my husband for 9 years and i still get insecure with my relationship at times too. I think it is human.

You do tend to go hard and fast though so that could be part of the problem. You also knew once sex was in the mix you would be doomed.

When i first met my husband we didn't sleep together right away but we did make out, and talk all night long. My roommate was dating his friend and we didnt talk about a relationship or anything. He called me 24 hours after he left our apt and we hung out. My roommate and i worked together. She came to work a day or so later and said i am sorry to tell you this but he told Mark (her bf at the time) that he wasn't wanting a relationship and was just wanting to be friends. 9 years later and we have been married for 3.5 years already. I had just gotten out of a relationship and wasn't really ready either, but i was smitten so i was crushed when she said that.

Leave him alone for a bit and let him make contact. Then bring up the idea of a visit and see how he plays it. text/email can get taken out of context so so so easily. On the phone is much better. Could it be he is just tired? You guys had a busy weekend and that wasn't very long ago. I get quieter when i am tired.

I read the comments on your last post. I know what you mean about coming across more emotional in the blog, but you come across needy when you talk to guys. My blog comes across fairly negative because that is what i tend to write about as it is my venting place but in real life i am a fairly happy person and not negative at all in real life.