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Monday, February 11, 2008

Ixnay on the Extay

First of all, thanks for all your comments! I appreciate the advice, and for the most part, I agree with all of you. The main reason I wrote that text was because Melissa told me I should! And usually, she gives good advice when it comes to guys. And I figured, what do I have to lose? So I sent it. And today, I got my response.

"Well I just got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship. Right now I'm trying to figure things out and can't commit to anything. I do enjoy hanging out with you a lot & would like to continue to do so."

I wrote back.
"I get that. I'm not trying to give you any ultimatums or anything. And I appreciate you being honest with me. I was merely curious."

So that's that. And I'm kind of glad it's out of the way. Because to be honest, I was afraid he might say he did wanna be in a relationship! Because the more that I think about it, I don't think I want that with him. At least not right now. And especially with my feelings for Jake The Door Guy surfacing... Ugh. Everything is such a mess. But I'm not going to call or text Friend Boy anymore. Period. If he calls me, that's fine. If he texts me, fine. But other than that, I'm not going to initiate any contact.

And as for Jake The Door Guy, he and I are now Facebook friends. And he just "mooned" me on SuperPoke. Lol. And get this! Charlotte recently friended him and has been unabashedly flirting with him on Facebook!! It's quite sickening actually. I mean I hate to say it but...she really aims too high. She always goes for guys that are just way out of her league! I mean, don't get me wrong, she's a nice girl, and she's cute, but she's short and fat! Not exactly what most guys look for in a girl. And she always goes for these superhot guys! I guess if she can get 'em then good for her but...whatever. It's just kind of pathetic the way she throws herself at them. Wow, I sound like a superficial bitch right now. It's just that after the whole incident with she and I and Friend Boy, I lost a lot of respect for her I guess.

I'm going to watch a flag football game with Melissa and Amanda in about an hour. Melissa's boyfriend, Tim is on the team and they have games every Monday night. So that should be fun, and low key. I'm gonna bring my camera and hopefully I'll get some decent shots.
Well, that's about all for now! Keep up the advice! Lord knows I need it!

P.S. Didn't anybody dig my new outfit!??

Demetri Of The Day:
“When you have a fat friend there are no see-saws. Only catapults.”

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

i have an ex boyfriend named jake. not a pretty break up. ugh, awful at that matter. everytime i read this i think of him.

haha, but that's not your fault and i still love the blog!

K said...

Yes, I loved the outfit!! Very hot! Next time post a pic of it... but crop your face off since you need to remain "incognito"! LOL! As for FB, i'm glad he texted back and didn't freak out (much). Your response was great. And the plan not to communicate with him unless he initiates is a good one.

As a former fat girl, the comment about Charlotte as well as Demetri's joke kind of bummed me out. I just don't really see a need to bag on people because of their weight. I get that you lost respect for Charlotte and she's not your fav person, but you kind of have to give her props for having the confidence to flirt with hot guys. Nothing may come of it, but I know alot of HOT girls who don't even have the self confidence to do that.

K said...

PS- I don't think you're a superficial bitch! I LOVE your blogs...

Peyton said...

I really don't have anything against overweight people, and I shouldn't have made that comment. I just...really can't stand Charlotte sometimes! Ugh...
Sorry if I offended anyone.

Anonymous said...

i really loved your blog and read it each day non-stop but and defended you were i cud after I read that over weight thing u kinda lost me on some level i will still read but that was mean ......

Anonymous said...

I think your fat comment is just. This blog is for you to vent, which means its not always going to be pc. More than anything, its aggravating she keeps stalking the guys you are interested in! Can't she find her own pond to swim in? Preferaby where they use cheetos for bait? See, now that's mean!
Regardless, I too think you should date around and leave yourself open to the world. Just take it easy on getting to physical too fast (I know its hard with those hot boys) but it makes life so much easier!

Anonymous said...

Yeah, you sounded like an egomaniac bitch with your comments on Charlotte aiming too high by going after cute guys when she is "cute but short and fat".. You were pretty much saying that you are better than her, and therefore she is fooling herself to think she could play in your league. Not cool Peyton for you to think that way. I get the venting part.. but you need to reign in your attitude a little bit.. there will always be someone cuter and hotter and smarter than you.. and maybe someday you will lose out to the short fat girl when a hot guy falls for her.

That said, venting and bitching is human.. so I don't hold it against you. You are young, you feel like you are hot shit, so who's to judge.

I'm also glad to hear that you are letting go of the FB thing... now you need to stop being his booty call. Like it or not you are bound to be getting a rep. with all your jumping around. Pretty soon you won't have the options for long term relationships because guys are going to only think of you for one thing.

Have a good week. We enjoy your blog.. bitchy or not.

Anonymous said...

By the way, the outfit was ok. The shoes are a little "80's prom".. but not bad if that's the look you are going for.

heather said...

love the outfit but i dont look good in pink, i would have gone red... love the blog too

Anonymous said...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH funny demitri quote!!!!!
so, the outfit: LOVE IT.
the FB issue: whatever will happen, happen. give it time.
Fat comment about Charlotte: funny and insulting. but w/e, no biggie. no harm done, since you're ANONYMOUS.
Charlotte herself: sounds like she has some self-confidence issues in some places, and too much in others... maybe be flattered that she likes your taste in guys? you might have more in common than you think!!!

Kate said...

I love the outfit!!!

As for the "fat" comments, it made me feel uneasy reading that, not because you were ragging on fat people, but it sounds like you have no flaws and therefore can get any guy you want. ANd maybe that is the case, but then it sounds like you are bragging about it. I get that you were venting, and that girl sounded like a real b%t#h, and she was probably after Jake because she knows that you are interested. So I dont blame you for wanting to vent, just made me uneasy reading that, because it makes me think "is that how other girls think about me if i go after a really hot guy" LOL