tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post7368754579665497738..comments2023-06-30T04:44:25.599-05:00Comments on The Life and Times of Peyton: The BreakupPeytonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03425373861782968292noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-13176779862349174342008-04-01T11:47:00.000-05:002008-04-01T11:47:00.000-05:00I have to agree with Emma. Also, I strongly recom...I have to agree with Emma. Also, I strongly recommend you not have conversations like this over email. So much is lost when we can't HEAR what people are saying. And its also good to have them face to face if possible so you can see expression, etc. Having it over email just means you can read one sentence completely differently than how it was meant. <BR/><BR/>It sounds like this one Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-37943119071365289332008-03-31T12:27:00.001-05:002008-03-31T12:27:00.001-05:00Email is never a good way to mend a fence. Percep...Email is never a good way to mend a fence. Perception is a huge part of email, and if one of you perceives an attitude from the other then nothing is solved.<BR/><BR/>You came off a little snotty and blaming in your emails. I really don't blame emma for not being super-receptive. <BR/><BR/>It sounds to me like you owe it to her to go down there and make an effort. It doesn't seem that you've Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-28364234489251912822008-03-31T12:27:00.000-05:002008-03-31T12:27:00.000-05:00Email is never a good way to mend a fence. Percep...Email is never a good way to mend a fence. Perception is a huge part of email, and if one of you perceives an attitude from the other then nothing is solved.<BR/><BR/>You came off a little snotty and blaming in your emails. I really don't blame emma for not being super-receptive. <BR/><BR/>It sounds to me like you owe it to her to go down there and make an effort. It doesn't seem that you've Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-37504633846134961462008-03-30T21:18:00.000-05:002008-03-30T21:18:00.000-05:00A case of miscommunication. Both of you thought pr...A case of miscommunication. Both of you thought pretty much the same thing about the other, but were unable to successfully relate that to the other. I think you should go and talk it out, but don't force it if it is beyond resolve, that could just make it worse in the long run. <BR/><BR/>Remember, people change and that causes relationships to change. Sometimes there is nothing you can do about Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-29272318956871236372008-03-30T12:24:00.000-05:002008-03-30T12:24:00.000-05:00i agree that you both are at fault for the end of ...i agree that you both are at fault for the end of the friendship, but at least you realized it (We are both equally at fault for the way things are. I just don't want us to continue being passive aggressive about this). That's a huge step in it right there. And good for you for making the first move to get it out in the open. As much as people can say that e-mail is the wrong way to do it, most Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-49370987321512809452008-03-29T09:42:00.000-05:002008-03-29T09:42:00.000-05:00You both have made mistakes. Seems like you both h...You both have made mistakes. Seems like you both have done stupid "passive aggressive" things to each other. This conversation is best left for in person, I would go to visit her and see if you can resolve things. But be open-minded, it seems like you did some stuff a few years back that has upset her. She said you ignored her calls when you were in school... that sucks, being "busy" is not an Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-77220307308738952222008-03-28T20:59:00.000-05:002008-03-28T20:59:00.000-05:00omg im sooooooooooooo glad you deleted that..........omg im sooooooooooooo glad you deleted that........i was afraid you WERE going to delete the blogAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-90209596906709987192008-03-28T20:54:00.000-05:002008-03-28T20:54:00.000-05:00if u read the essence of the emails, you're both ...if u read the essence of the emails, you're both saying that ur friendships is important to u both and that u both feel like u've tried without getting a response. Take that as a huge positive that u want to remain friends, and go see her, have a chat, and give it another chance, both trying and looking at it from each other's viewpoint. Try to put urself in the other's shoes and see if u would Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-46400652242063033162008-03-28T18:22:00.000-05:002008-03-28T18:22:00.000-05:00yay, im glad you deleted that post. i know in some...yay, im glad you deleted that post. i know in some past posts people were getting mad that you deleted posts or whatever, but im glad you did here! <BR/>so thats really good of you.<BR/>as for the blog, i think you should plan a trip for just for emma there! adn if you cant discuss you feelings or agree on 'who was to blame', maybe you can just agree to forget. not necessarily forgive and forget Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-33672284602740013752008-03-28T18:13:00.000-05:002008-03-28T18:13:00.000-05:00To Laurie:first of all, that is definitely not my ...To Laurie:<BR/>first of all, that is definitely not my myspace page. And whoever's it is, I feel really sorry for her, and I am going to delete the comment just to spare the poor girl from being bombarded.<BR/>second of all, for the those of you who do enjoy reading my blog, i'm sure you all know that i appreciate some degree of privacy and anonimity, which is why nobody KNOWS my myspace info, Peytonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03425373861782968292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-11047172056811327842008-03-28T17:47:00.000-05:002008-03-28T17:47:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-91215384780968698042008-03-28T17:46:00.000-05:002008-03-28T17:46:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-78043218001707931662008-03-28T17:39:00.000-05:002008-03-28T17:39:00.000-05:00i will have to agree with the two others, i think ...i will have to agree with the two others, i think you two see the past differently and you need a serious talk! you obviously dont want to lose each other therefore you should do whatever it takes to show her you care about your relationship. go to her house but dont go when your in town because you were going to see bj, plan a trip just to go see her. btw i do have to agree that i think both of Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-36491228039611768992008-03-28T17:15:00.000-05:002008-03-28T17:15:00.000-05:00So do it. Show up at her house and talk, yell, scr...So do it. Show up at her house and talk, yell, scream... whatever. Because obviously she sees things way differently than you do. And yeah, you did sound like you were placing some blame on her. But that's only because the two of you see the past 3 yrs. differently... which is why you need to talk and try to work it out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-7594283096619428702008-03-28T16:00:00.000-05:002008-03-28T16:00:00.000-05:00Although i think you may have thought you were jus...Although i think you may have thought you were just talking, you actually did sound like you were placing the blame a bit. I kind of took the same way she did.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com