tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post4505081013959121267..comments2023-06-30T04:44:25.599-05:00Comments on The Life and Times of Peyton: Tough LovePeytonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03425373861782968292noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-88280430909660642392010-02-04T17:56:37.386-06:002010-02-04T17:56:37.386-06:00Also, just because you aren't letting her move...Also, just because you aren't letting her move in doesn't mean that you're not there for her. You can be there for someone without them living with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-71188011454529714992010-02-04T17:55:05.633-06:002010-02-04T17:55:05.633-06:00Honestly?
I often disagree with what you post and...Honestly? <br />I often disagree with what you post and how you handle things, however this time I don't. <br />Sometimes people need tought love and you can't always pick people up when they fall because then they don't learn. I also think it's absolutely PATHETIC of her to call you and tell you (did she even ask beforehand?) she's moving in after being such a brat and prettyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-91073879314162945302010-02-04T09:38:56.771-06:002010-02-04T09:38:56.771-06:00Just for the record, I did tell Bethany that if sh...Just for the record, I did tell Bethany that if she needed a place to stay, she was more than welcome to sleep in my bed with me, or on my couch till she finds a place. Its just the moving in part that I'm not ok with.Peytonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03425373861782968292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-88814373225995951862010-02-03T23:06:29.899-06:002010-02-03T23:06:29.899-06:00Ok.. Unlike what everyone else has said.. I'm ...Ok.. Unlike what everyone else has said.. I'm going to be the bitch in the group and say this. No! You shouldn't feel like you've abandoned her. Where was SHE when you've needed someone? <br /><br />It isn't fair of HER to expect you to just up root your life to accommodate hers. Especially since she's pretty much been MIA as a friend to you. That is YOUR place, and youJennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-22681529102526212452010-02-03T22:44:51.080-06:002010-02-03T22:44:51.080-06:00You could have at least let her stay with you for ...You could have at least let her stay with you for a limited amount of time... to allow her to get her life figured out. You were very harsh and I am certain that if roles were reversed and she did this to you .. you would be freaking out. You are great at placing blame, but part of maturity is turning that focus back on yourself and checking where some of THAT ownership belongs.<br /><br />ThatAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-29960452168918338322010-02-03T20:51:41.553-06:002010-02-03T20:51:41.553-06:00I think friendships change and evolve over time, a...I think friendships change and evolve over time, and it's natural. I don't think you're being a bad friend at all. First and foremost, you have to take care of your own needs. How can you be there for her if you're not taking care of yourself? I do think that you should put aside any remaining annoyance, and make an extra effort to reach out to her since she's going Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15598072463774309310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-15277479143129412802010-02-03T13:45:13.164-06:002010-02-03T13:45:13.164-06:00I think you are being a bit hard on her. I mean I ...I think you are being a bit hard on her. I mean I don't know the whole situation, but I know how hard it is to go through a break up, and esp. how devastated you seemed. It's hard to think about anyone else when you have hit rock bottom. Not trying to make excuses, maybe she genuinely is a really selfish person. But if you really are her friend, then you should step up and be her friend Autumnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-36321692766583754542010-02-03T12:54:45.521-06:002010-02-03T12:54:45.521-06:00I dont think yu were abandoning her. this had been...I dont think yu were abandoning her. this had been building up for a while, and it needed to come out. It's natural to feel guilty. Do i think there may have been a bettertime to do it? Not Really. However, it seemed like there was never a right tim e in your relationship with her to bring this up, so I understand. Trust me, sometimes, there is no good time to have it ot with a friend, but itRusticPoisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03281640280685962797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1412251258960272179.post-65462662031510911732010-02-03T12:04:38.113-06:002010-02-03T12:04:38.113-06:00I think that you are abandoning her. Yeah, you...I think that you are abandoning her. Yeah, you've had your problems with her, but maybe it would've been a good idea to talk to her when her world wasn't crashing down on her. She went to you for support for a reason, and I doubt she was truly aware of how you felt all this time. And when she does come to you, and is in this situation, is when you choose to talk about it. That'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com